‘‘bap bara n bhaiya, sabse bara rupaiya’’ - yah kahavat aj kalyug men sau pratishat sach sabit ho rahi hai. pratyek manav kisi n kisi prakar se dhan ki devi man lakshmi ko prasann karne ki koshish men laga rahta hai ki uske ghar men dhan-daulat ka sthayi vas ho jay. iske liye vah apni buddhi anusar sukarm ya kukarm bhi karta hai, vibhinn jyotishiya upay bhi karta hai, parantu kya is prakar se man lakshmi prasann ho jati hain. is bare men prachin bhartiya puranon men likha hai ki ek bar bhagvti lakshmi ne devraj indra ko bataya tha - ‘‘mujhe vaise to mere nivas sthan se koi nahin hata sakta lekin main svayan un gharon ko chod deti hun ya ve ghar dhire-dhire meri kripa se vanchit hone lagte hain jahan mujhe nagvar gujrne vali kuch baten hoti rahti hain. is prakar mere vahan se chale jane par ath deviyan yani asha, dhriti, svadha, svaha, shraddha, shanti, samriddhi v jaya bhi chali jati hain jis karan us ghar men kalah, daridrata, ashanti v asantosh jaisi anek vipattiyan vas karne lagti hain.’’ man lakshmi ki kripa ko rokne vali kuch nagvar baten kaun-kaun si hain, aiye charcha karte hain:
surya se sanbandhit
- jab kisi ghar ke sadasya suryoday ke pashchat bistar se uthte hain aur suryoday ke pashchat hi mal tyag karte hain.
- jab ghar ke sadasyon dvara snan ke pashchat surya ko jal nahin diya jata.
- jab ghar ke sadasya din ke samay surya ki or mukh kar laghushanka karte hain.
- jab ghar ke sadasyon dvara suryaeday ke samay ya sandhyakal men bhi shayan kiya jata hai.
parivar ke sadasyon se sanbandhit
- jab parivar ke chote sadasya apne se baron ko nitya pranam nahin karte balki apne guru, atithi adi ka uphas urate hain.
- jahan ghar men kisi stri ka tiraskar, duvryahar kiya jata hai ya mara pita jata hai.
- jahan parivar ke bujurgon ko bhojan karvaye bina ap akele bhojan kar lete hain.
- jahan kisi ghar men ghar ke vriddh mata-pita ka paln-poshan nahin kiya jata v anadar hota hai.
- jab kisi ghar ki bahu apne sas-sasur adi baron ka man-samman nahin karti v un par shasan karti hai.
- jahan kisi ghar men kamane vale purush apni ay ko sharab, jue adi vyasnon men ganva dete hain aur parivar ka uchit laln-palan nahin karte.
- jahan kisi ghar men parivar ki striyan faishan ke vashibhut hokar apne kesh katvati hain aur ardhanagn vastra pahnti hain.
ghar se sanbandhit
- jahan kisi ghar men jhadu-pocha adi lagakar nitya saf safai nahin ki jati.
- jis ghar men tulsi ka paudha nahin lagaya jata ya lagakar uski nitya puja nahin ki jati.
- jis ghar men atithi ko bhojan nahin karaya jata balki uske ane par narajgi jahir ki jati hai.
- jis ghar men makri ke jale hataye nahin jate hain ya divaron ki tut-fut thik nahin karvai jati hai.
- jis ghar men saf-safai hetu rat ko jharu adi lagaya jata hai.
- jahan kisi ghar men rasoighar ke pas hi taeylet banva diya jata hai.
rasoighar se sanbandhit
- jab kisi ghar men ratri bhojan ke pashchat juthe bartanon ko saf karke vyavasthit tarike se nahin rakha jata aur juthe v ashuddh bartan rat bhar rasoighar men rakhe rah jate hanai.
- jahan kisi ghar men svayan ke bhojan se pahle agni, gay, kaue v kutte ke liye kuch bhojan nahin nikala jata.
- jahan kisi ghar men grihini ya rasoiya man, vani v karm se pavitra n hokar jute, chappal pahan kar rasoighar men pravesh kar khana banate hain.
dharm se sanbandhit
- jis ghar men pitri shraddh nahin kiya jata.
- jis ghar men lakshmi narayan ki puja nahin ki jati.
- jis ghar men shankh dhvani nahin ki jati.
- jahan funk mar kar dipak ko bujhaya jata hai.
- jis ghar men dharm ka anadar hota hai aur devi devtaon ke bare men apashabd kahe jate hain.
- jis ghar men brahmanon ko bhojan nahin karaya jata.
- jahan kisi ghar men ishvar ko dhanyavad kiye bina bhojan kiya jata hai.
- jis ghar men ekadshi v janmashtami par vrat adi nahin rakha jata.
vibhinna
- jab kisi nadi ya talab men laghu shanka ki jati hai.
- jab kisi ghar men rogi, din, balak, anath, durbal, stri v vriddh par daya nahin ki jati.
- jab kisi ghar men din men maithun kriya ki jati hai ya vyakti gile panv nagn ho kar sota hai.
- jis ghar men sarlta, sauhard, kshama, prem, satya, dan, daya adi ka vas nahin hota.
- jis ghar men asantosh, nidra, avivek, alasya, aprasannata, vishad v kamna adi rahte hain.
- jab kisi ghar men vyakti apni god men baja lekar bajata hai.
- jab kisi ghar men tuti hui kanghi se bal sanvare jate hain.
- jis kisi ghar ke sadasya 40 din se jyada bal nahin katvate hain.
- jab kisi ghar ke sadasya pahle bayen pair se paint adi pahnte hain.
- jab kisi ghar ke sadasya vasna v krodh se bhare rahte hain.
- jab kisi ghar ke sadasya apne danton se nakhun katte ya chabate hain to main us ghar men vas nahin karti.