jyotishshastra ke sahasradhik granthon men vivah tatha usse juri hui samasyaon par shatabdiyon se charcha hoti rahi hai. vaivahik samasyaon ke lie uttaradayi grahyogon ke vishay men daivagyaon ke sath-sath samanya manushyon tak ko pramukh adharbhut suchnaen gyat hain. parantu in jyotishiya grahyogon ke gyan ke sath-sath yadi unke nivaran ke sambandh men gyan n ho to ise uchit sthiti nahin kaha ja sakta hai.
atah vaidik, pauranik upayon ke sath-sath lokaprasiddh lal kitab men varnit un upayon ko yahan prastut kiya ja raha hai jinko prayog men lane se vaivahik jivan se juri samasyaon se sahaj hi mukti pai ja sakti hai. kisi bhi samasya se mukti ke lie yah avashyak hai ki samasya ke mul karan ko samjha jay aur fir use dur karne ke upay kie jaen. is sandarbh men bhi hamen isi prakriya ka ashray lena hoga. vivah se juri alg-alag samasyaon ke lie vibhinn grahasthitiyan ya grahyog uttaradayi hote hain.
atah avashyak yah hai ki pahle in samasyaon ke karnon ka anveshan kiya jay aur fir unse mukti ke upayon par drishtipat kiya jay. in vaivahik samasyaon ke lie mukhya rup se vibhinn grah hi uttaradayi hain. atah in grahon ki shanti hetu vividh mantron ka prayog talika ke anusar kiya ja sakta hai
lal kitab prokt vaivahik vightnkarak shani ke upay
- safede ka patta apni jeb men rakhen.
- tanbe, stil ya lohe ke patra men rakha jal pien.
- ate ki goliyan machliyon ko khilaen.
- kale urad (400 gram) jal men pravahit kar den.
- bhojan ka pahla gras gay ko den.
- shanivar sayankal men urad dal ki khichri avashya khaen.
vaivahik vilamb v pratibandh ke upay
- agni mahapuran ke 18ven adhyay men varnit gauri pratishtha vidhi ka prayog karen. ‘‘un klin vishvasurnam gandharvah kanyanamdhiptiah labhami devadattan kanyan surupan salankaran tasmai vishvavsve svaha’’. is gandharvaraj mantra ka das hajar jap karen.
purushon ke shighra vivah ke lie adholikhit mantra ka 108 bar jap karen-
‘‘patnin manorman dehi manovrityanusarinim. tarinin durgasansarsagarasya kulodbhavam.. kankdhara stotra ka 21 path 90 din tak karen.
shriramdrbar chitra ka panchopchar pujan ke bad nimnalikhit dohe ka 21 bar jap karen-
‘‘tab janak pai vashishth aysu byah saj sanvari kai. mandvi shrutikirti urmila kunari lai hankari kai..’’
adholikhit yantra ko bhojapatra par anar ki kalam aur ashtagandh ki syahi se likhen- iske bad haldi ki mala se ‘‘un hriin han sah’’ mantra ka 1100 jap karen. japkal men til ke tel se prajjvalit dipak jalta rahe. path ke bad shighra vivah ki kamna 8 15 2 7 6 3 12 11 14 9 8 1 4 5 10 13 prakat karen. is sandarbh men shukravar ko kiya janevala man gauri ka vrat bhi prashast mana gaya hai.
nirahar vrat ke bad sayankal panchmukhi dipak jalaen. punah adholikhit mantra ka 108 bar jap karen- ‘‘balarkayutasatprabhan kartle lolambamalakulan malan sandadhatin manohrtnun mandasmitadhomukhim. mandan mandamupeyushin varyitun shambhun jaganmohinin, vande devmunindravanditpdam ishtarthadan parvatim..’’ vaivahik vilamb athva pratibandh yogon men shani ki mahatvapurn bhumika hoti hai. atah aisi paristhiti men nimnalikhit mantra ka prayog shighra hi fal deta hai-
‘‘konasthah pinglon babhruah krishno raundrontako yamah. sauriah shanaishcharo mandah pippalashray sansthitah.. etani shani-namani japedashvatthasannidhau. shanaishcharakrita pira n kadapi bhavishyati..’’ shanivar ko sayankal pipal vriksh ke niche sarson ke tel ka dipak jalaen, aur uprokt mantra ka 36 bar jap karen. yogya purohit ke sannidhya men atyant prabhavshali ‘shani-patal kriya’ ka anushthan karaen. yadi janmang men mangal dosh vidyaman ho aur is karan se vivah men vilamb ho raha ho to adholikhit upay shighra hi fal pradan karte hain
- mangal chandika stotra ka 21 path nitya karen- ‘‘raksh raksh jaganmatardevi mangalachandike.
harike vipdan rasheah harshamanglkrike.. harshamangaladakshe ch harshamangldayike. shubhe mangaladakshe ch shubhe mangalachandike.. mangle manglarhe ch sarvamanglmangle. sada manglde devi sarveshan manglalye..’’ mangalastotra ka nitya 21 bar jap karen. saubhagyashtottar shatnam stotra ka path karen. mangal yantra ki vidhipurvak sthapna karen. yogya purohit ke dvara kanya ka kunbh athva vishnu vivah atyant gopniya tarike se karvaen. gopniyata hi is prayog ke saflta ki kunji hoti hai.
saundarya lahri (shlok 1-27) ka path karen. savitri vrat ka sashraddha anushthan karen. sonth, saunf, maulsiri ke ful, singarak, malkangni aur lal chandan sambhag len. ise jal men milakar manglvar ko snan karen. bel, jatamansi, lakh ke ful, hinglu, bal, chandan aur muvla aushdhiyon ko pani men milakar manglvar ko snan karen.
mangal dosh shanti hetu lal kitab ke upay -
- mnaglvar ko revriyan ya batashe bahte hue jal men pravahit karen.
- tulsi ke patte v kali mirch ka sevan karen.
- mnaglvar ko gur v masur ki dal avashya khaen. - gay ko gur ya chini mili rotiyan khilaen.
- tandur ki mithi rotiyon ka dan karen.
- bandaron ko jalebi, shakrpare adi khilaen.
vaivahik vighatan se bachav hetu lal kitab upay
- yadi kanya ke janmang men vaivahik vighatan, vaidhavya, parthakya adi ke yog ban rahe hon to adholikhit upchar karen. vivahotsav men kanyadan ke samay yah prayog karna shreyaskar hota hai.
janmang men jo grah vaivahik kasht ke lie uttaradayi ho us grah se sanbandhit ratn athva dhatu ke barabar vajan vale do tukre len. kanyadan ka sankalp lete samay ye donon tukre kanya ke dahine hath men rakhen. kanyadan tatha vivah samapti ke bad inmen se ek tukra bahte hue jal men pravahit karen, jabki dusra tukra athva vastu kanya apne pas ajivan sanbhalakar rakhe. yah vastu jab tak kanya ke pas rahegi vah tatha uska vaivahik jivan surakshit rahega. grah tatha unse sambandhit samagri ki suchi niche talika men darshayi gayi hai
- û budh khana nan 12 men ho kar kasht utpann kar raha ho to vivah ke grah surya chandra mnagal budh guru shukra shani rahu ketu samagri tanba manikya chandi moti manuga hira, panna lal fitkri svarn, kesar, haldi sip, moti nilam, surma, stil chandi ki int lahsuniya samay stil ke bane bina jorvale do challe len. ek jatak ko pahnaen tatha dusra jal pravah den.
-shukra khana nan. 4 men rahakar kashtakarak ho to stri se char mahine ke andar dubara vivah karen.
- kanyadan ke samay kanya ko chandi ki int den.
- brihaspati krit ashubh prabhav se bachne ke lie kanya ko shuddh sone ka sikka den.
- vaivahik vighatan se bachne ke lie vivah ke samay tanbe ke baratan men sabut hari manug bharen. dhakkan band karen aur sankalpapurvak kanya ka bhai athva pita ise jal pravah de.
vrat - solah somvar ke vrat nishthapurvak karen. santoshi mata ka vrat bhi is drishti se ashcharyajanak fal dene vala hai. vat savitri ka vrat karen. manglagauri vrat v pujan ka anushthan karen.
vishesh upay shighra vivah hetu (anubhut) - kafi upay karne ke bad bhi yadi kanya ka vivah n ho raha ho to is prayog ko avashya karen. kisi bhi manglvar ke din kanya nirahar vrat kare. pipal ke 108 patte pratahkal tor laen. kisi siddh hanuman mandir men jakar hanuman ji ke vigrah ke samaksh baith jaen. vahin kesar ki syahi banaen tatha lal chandan ki kalam se pipal ke patton par ‘ram’ likhen. kanya mauli le aur in patton ki mala bana len.
fir hanuman ji ke samne hath jorakar kahen- ‘‘mera vivah ap shighra kara den, anyatha aj se 108 ven din akar yahi varmala apko pahna dungi.’’ iske bad kanya vapas mandir se chali jae aur vapas murakar n dekhe. is prayog ke bad kanya ka vivah atishighra ho jata hai. shivratri ke din jis mandir men shiv parvati vivah ka anushthan hua ho kanya vahan jae aur vivah ki puri vidhi ko dekhe. is vivahotsav men ‘laja’ (khil) bhi bikhere jate hain.
kanya pratahkal mandir jae aur vahan se in khil ke 11 dane chun kar kha len. is upay se shighra vivah ka yog banega. ramchritmanas ke shiv parvati vivah prasang ka 11 somvar tak sashraddha path karen. shriramjanki ke vivah prasang ka path bhi ashcharyajanak saflta deta hai. yadi kalasarpayog ke karan vivah men vilamb ho raha ho to vaidik vidhi se is dosh ki shanti ghar men karvaen.
shuddh svarn ke ath nag (savagram prati) banvakar jal men pravahit kar den. vaivahik samasyaon ko dur karne ke lie grahon ke mantra, jap sankhya evan ratn grah pauranik mantra jap sankhya ratn surya japakusumasankashan kashyapeyan mahadyutim. tamorinsarvapapadhnan prantosmidivakaram.. 7000 manikya chandra dadhishankhatusharabhan kshirodarnavasambhavam. namami shashinan soman shambhormukut bhushanam.. 11000 moti mangal dharnigarbhasambhutan vidyutkantisamaprabham. kumaran shaktihastan ch manglan pranmamyaham.. 10,000 munga budh priyanguklikashyaman rupenapratiman budham. saumyan saumyagunopetan tan budhan pranmamyaham.. 9,000 panna guru devanan ch rishinan ch gurun kanchanasannibham. buddhibhutan trilokeshan tan namami brihaspatim.. 19,000 pukhraj shukra himkund mrinalabhan daityanan parman gurum. sarvashastrapravaktaran bhargavan pranmamyaham.. 16,000 hira shani un nilanjnsmabhasan raviputran yamagrajam. chaya martandasambhutan tan namami shanaishcharam.. 23,000 nilam rahu un ardhakayan mahaviryan chandradityavimardanam. sinhikagarbhasambhutan tan rahun pranmamyaham.. 18,000 gomed ketu un palashpushpasankashan tarkagrahamastakam. raudran raudratmakan ghoran tan ketun pranmamyaham.. 17,000 lahsuniya