kundli ke in grahon ki vajah se nahin ho pati hai shadi, asan se upayon se ho sakta hai samadhan  

kuch logon ki jindgi men vivah hona ek badi samas‍ya ban jata hai. kisi ke rish‍te to ate hain lekin bat nahin ban pati, to kuch logon ki bat ban jane ke bad bhi vivah karya sanpan‍n hone men koi na koi rukavat paida hone lagti hai. kisi ki to shadi pak‍ki hone ke bad bhi tut jati hai. aise men samajh nahin a pata ki k‍ya samas‍ya hai aur kis vajah se vivah men deri a rahi hai. vo khud ko ya apni kis‍mat ko kosne lagte hain jabki is sabmen unka koi dosh nahin hota hai.

kundli men shadi ke lie vivah yog banta hai aur agar yah vivah yog bit jae to kuch samay ke bad dobara is yog ka aranbh hota hai. grahon ki dasha, samajik-arthik karnon ya an‍y kisi vajah se v‍yak‍ti vivah yog men shadi nahin kar pata hai. kundli men kuch grahon ki sthiti bhi vivah men deri hone ka karan ban sakti hai.

kai bar ladka ya ladki ke lie yog‍y jivnsathi nahin mil pata hai ya yog‍y rish‍ta milne ke bavjud koi na koi rukavat ya vilanb ata rahta hai. aise men bete ya beti ki shadi man-bap ke lie chinta ka karan ban jati hai. yahan ham apko kuch aise j‍yotishiya karnon ke bare men bata rahe hain jo vivah men deri ane ka karan ban sakte hain.

vivah men deri ane ke karn

vivah men deri ya rukavat ane ka pramukh karan grahon ka prabhav aur unki chal hoti hai. kaha jata hai ki agar kisi v‍yak‍ti ki kundli ke satven bhav par ashubh grahon ka prabhav ho to uske parivarik jivan men mushkilen ati hain aur vivah sanbandhi karyon men rukavat ut‍pan‍n hoti hai. iske alava nim‍n karnon se bhi shadi men deri ho sakti hai :

• kundli men pitri dosh hona.
• kundli ke sap‍tam bhav men grahon ki yuti hona.
• jan‍makundli men manglik dosh hona.
• sap‍tam bhav ke s‍vami ke sath kamjor rashi ka ashubh sthiti men hona, yah bhi vivah men deri ka karan ban sakta hai.
• yadi mangal, shani aur shukra sap‍tam bhav men ek sath baithe hon to adhik umra men shadi hone ki sanbhavna rahti hai.
• mangal, suurya aur budh ke ladki ki kundli men lag‍n bhav men hone aur guru ke barhven bhav men hone par ladki ki shadi badi umra men hoti hai.
• agar sap‍tam bhav men surya kamjor ho to vivah men deri ati hai ya rukavten paida hone lagti hain.
• navmansh kunndli lag‍n ya sap‍tam bhav men shani ke prabal hone par shadi badi umra men hoti hai aur vivah karyon men mushkilen ati hain.

grahon ka gochr

alg-alag bhavon men grahon ke gochar ka bhi vivah ke samay men aham bhumika hoti hai. shukra (vrishabh aur tula)/uchch ka saptam bhava/saptamesh svami se sanbandh hona, svayan ke ghar men guru/saptam bhav par uchch ka hona/saptamesh ka svami, uchch ka saptam ka svami ho to vivah karya jal‍di hote hain. udaharan ke lie, vartaman men brihaspati uchch ka (kark rashi men) ho to yah kark lagn, vrishabh lagn aur kanya lagn men janm lene vale jatkon ke lie vivah karne ka achcha samay hota kyonki brihaspati satven ghar par pratyaksh drishti dal raha hota hai.

dasha

vivah ke yog men mahadsha bhi aham bhumika nibhati hai. dasha men brihas‍pati ki kisi bhi tarah ki bhumika vivah karya badhava deti hai. sap‍tam bhav ke s‍vami ko bhi vivah ke lie aham mana jata hai. rahu bhi shadi ke lie aham karak hota hai. shukra grah ka sanbandh bhi vivah se mana jata hai.

vivah men deri ane par k‍ya upay karen

ya‍di kisi v‍yak‍ti ki shadi men deri ho rahi hai ya koi na koi rukavat ati rahti hai to nim‍n upay karne se is samas‍ya se chutkara mil sakta hai.

• 11 somvar tak 1200 gram chana dal ke sath ek chauthai dudh dan karen. aisa karne se vivah karya men a rahi rukavten dur hone lagti hain.
• avivahit ladkiyon ko 40 dinon tak nel polish den. har din alag ladki ko nel polish deni hai. isse jal‍di vivah hota hai aur vivah ki pareshaniyan dur hoti hain.
• 21 dinon tak durga sap‍tashati se argala s‍trotam ka path karen aur man kat‍yayni devi ki puja karen.
• yadi kisi kan‍ya ke vivah men deri ho rahi hai to kan‍ya bhagvan shiv ki puja karen aur unki murti ke age panch nariyal chadhaen aur 'un shrin var praday shri nam:' ka panch bar rudraksh ki mala se jap karen. nariyalon ko mandir men chadha den.
• agar kundli men shani ki vajah se vivah men deri a rahi hai to shanivar ke din shivling par kale til chadhaen. sabut udad, loha, kale til aur sabun ko kale kapde men bandhakar usi din dan kar den. is upay se vivah men a rahi deri dur hoti hai aur jal‍d hi shadi ke yog banne lagte hain.
• yadi kundli men manglik dosh ho to v‍yak‍ti ko mangal chandika s‍totra ka path karna chahie aur 'un hrin shrin k‍lin sarva puj‍y devi mangal chandike hun fat s‍vaha ka jap karen.
• kisi ke vivah men deri ho rahi hai to 13 dinon tak lagatar pipal ke ped ki jad men pani chadhaen. aisa karne se shadi men a rahi rukavten dur hoti hain.
• roj nahane ke pani men ek chutki hal‍di dal den ya guruvar ko ate ki do loi gay ko khilaen aur us par chane ki dal ke sath hal‍di aur gud bhi rakh den.
• manglik dosh ki vajah se shadi men rukavten a rahi hain to mangal ko vrat rakhen aur hanuman ji ki puja karen. ate aur gud se bane laddu hanuman ji ko chadhaen aur fir un‍hen sindur arpit karen.
• shadi men a rahi deri ko dur karne ke lie man laksh‍mi ki puja karen aur shri suk‍tam ka roj path karen.
• apne se badon ka adar karen aur unka ashirvad len aur apni man ki dekhbhal karen.
• apni bhabhi ka adar karen aaur un‍hen uphar den.
• laksh‍mi narayan mandir men chudiyan chadhaen aur shrringar ka saman bhent karen.