ap bhi jante hain, ki sansar ka har ek jiv apne parivar tatha as pas ke logon se bahut pyar karta hai aur har kisi ke man mane pyar aur samman pane ki bahut chah hoti hai. lekin aj-kal parivar men choti-choti baton ko lekar klesh hona aur fir uske karan us klesh ka vikral rup hone men der nahin lagti hai. ham bhi sochne par majbur ho jate hain, ki ye usi karan aisa hua hai, agar vo aisa nahin karta to aj ye halat nahin hote.
aisa sochna bilkul galat hai, ham ya ap kisi ko galat nahin kah sakte hain, kyonki in sabke lie jimmedar hamare karm to hote hain, lekin sabse bare jimmedar hamare grah hi hote hain. koi bhi jiv dharti par bura nahin hai, aiye ab kaise ise thik karen, jisse ki ham hamare pyar karne vale anmol parivar se kisi bhi tarah dur n hon.
sabse pahle kya karen:
- hamare ghar men choti-moti jarurton ke
lie kilen, bina tale ki chabhiyan,
jang laga hua loha, barsat ki
bhigi lakri, kabar ke aur bhi jo
rup hote hain, pare huye mil jate hanai,
unhen bahar nikalen.
- chat par bhi koi kabar, loha, lakri
adi nahin hona chahie, ghar ki chat
bistar ke sukh vale grah se sanbandhit
mana gaya hai.
- ghar men murti lagakar, jyot jalakr
puja path n karen, mandir men jakr
ap donon prakar se puja kar sakte
hain, sirf apko ghar men mana kiya ja
raha hai.
- subah jaldi uthakar ghar men saf-safai
karke pure ghar men achchi lekin halki
khushbu vali agarabatti ya dhup jala den,
jisse ki parivar men sabhi logon men
sakaratmak urja ka sanchar ho sake.
- gande-fate bistaron ka prayog n karen,
har saptah men ek bar bistaron ke
lihaf adi badal den.
- pati-patni din ke samay kabhi bhi
ek n hon.
- ghar men nile-kale rang ke pent adi na
karvaen aur parde adi bhi is rang ke
prayog n karen.
- ghar ke purvi aur uttar disha ko hamesha
saf rakhen, is disha men kabhi bhi kabar
ya bhari saman n rakhen.
- rojana ghar ki sabse pahli roti men se
kutte, kauve aur gay ko hissa jarur
den, agar roti mane se n de paen to apne
bhojan men se inke lie hisse avashya
nikalen, ye karya karne se apke
sahakarmi aur apke bare adhikari
apse khush rahenge tatha jivnsathi ka
sukh bhi achcha milega.
gharelu sukh-shanti ke lie aisa karen-
- chandi ke bare se bartan men gangajl
bharakar chandi ka ek chaikor tukra
dalakar ghar men rakhen, gangajal kabhi
sukhne n den.
- har saptah kam se kam ek bar gayon
ki seva jarur karen, aur sanbhav ho
sake to gali mane saf-safai karne
vale ko bharpet shakahari bhojn
apne ghar par hi karvaen .
- jivnsathi ke prati vafadari kabhi bhi
kam n karen.
- tala hua khana kam se kam banaen,
nariyal, badam talne bhunne se bachen.
- shauchalay, snanagar adi bilkul
saf suthre rakhen, inmen bhi halki
khushbu ka hamesha prabandh rakhen.
- rat ke samay juthe bartan aur gande
kapre bhigokar n soen, anyatha apke
parivar men ekta kabhi nahin banegi,
aur ghar ke sabhi log apni- apni
ichcha ka dabav banakar sab kuch nashta
kar denge.
- jo log din men mansahari bhojan aur
sharab ka sevan karte hain to vo iska
sevan sirf rat ko hi karen.
bimariyan dur n hoti hon to kya karen ?-
- har mahine ke kisi bhi ek manglvar
ko pure mahine men ae rishtedaron aur
ghar ke sadasyon ko joren. unmane char
aur faltu jor len to jitni bhi
sankhya ho utni hi ate mane gur
milakar rotiyan tandur men lagvakr
kutton aur kauvon ko dalen, lekin
dhyan rahe ki rotiyon me lohe ka
prayog n ho.
- har roj rat ko sirhane do-char
rupae sikke ke rup men rakhakar soyane
aur subah uthakar safai-karmachari
ko de den.
- ghar ke naukr-chakar aur sath men
kam karne valon ko khush rakhen, unse
jhagra aur bahas kabhi n karen.
- rojana subah jaldi uthakar surya ki
roshni se snan karen.