vivah ke bad pati-patni ka danpatya jivan praranbh hota hai jo dirghakal tak chalta rahta hai parantu kabhi-kabhi aisa hota hai ki kundli milan thik n hone ya svabhav men bhinnata, santan ka n hona, santan ka bigar jana, sharirik akshamata adi ke karan danpatya jivan men sukh ka abhav ho jata hai.
in sab sthitiyon ka akalan evan avlokan karne ke bad hamare purvajon ne kuch upayon ka anveshan kiya jisse danpatya jivan sukhi rahe. ve upay nimn prakar kahe gaye hain: 1. vivah ke bad jab kanya vida ho to kisi pile rang ke patra men gangajal men thori si haldi milakar usmen ek tanbe ka sikka dalakar kanya ke upar se sat bar utar kar uske age fenk dane. isse kanya ka danpatya jivan sukhamay rahega. 2. vivah hone se char din pahle sat sabut haldi ki ganth, pital ke tin sikke ya tukre, thora sa keshar, thora sa gur v chane ki dal kisi pile kapre men bandhakar kanya apni sasural ki disha ki or fenk de. isse kanya sasural men sukhi danpatya jivan vyatit karegi. 3. yadi kisi karan se kram se