tairo dek men kard ‘di mun’ 18 nanka kard hai. yah kard min rashi dvara shasit hai jo anishchatata darshata hai. tairo riding men jis vyakti ke liye yah kard ‘‘di mun’’ niklta hai usko savdhan ho jana chahiye kyonki vah jinke sath kam karta hai/krti hai, jinke bich rahta hai/rhti hai vo sab kuch vaisa hi nahin hai jaisa usko dikhai deta hai. usko unse dhokha mil sakta hai arthat dekhne men kuch aur hota hai aur asliyat kuch aur hoti hai. jiske liye yah kard tairo riding ke dauran nikla hai
yah uske liye shubh shakun hai, yah shubh kard hai aur ab uske liye achcha samay a gaya hai ki kuch rahasyon se parda uthne vala hai asliyat samne ane vali hai. vah jis andhere men tha vah andhera ab chant jayega aur vah roshni men a jayega sara sach uske samne hoga aur vah soch samajh kar apne kadam age barhayega arthat vastavikta janne ke bad vah us dhokhe se, dhokhebajon se bach payega, jisse usko bahut nuksan hone vala tha. ‘‘di mun’’ kard ka prakatya hi yah darshata hai ki ab apke sammukh aisi paristhitiyan svayan hi paida hongi ki sara andhera chant jayega aur roshni men sach jagmga ke samne a jayega jaise chandrama ki roshni men andhera chat jane ke pashchat sab kuch roshan ho jata hai.
is tarah is kard ka prakatya apke liye shubh v shakun ka kard hai. yah kard ingit karta hai ki apka achcha samay a gaya hai. man lijie ap kisi ke sath partanaraship men bijnes kar rahe hain aur ap ko us par bahut vishvas hai, lekin andar hi andar vah apse vishvasghat kar raha hai. vah vyapar men apko labh kam dikhata hai, vah svayan apne liye dhan ekatrit kar leta hai, vah uska upyog svayan apne liye, apne parivar ke liye karta rahta hai jiska apko pata bhi nahin hai to tairo riding karvane par apka ‘di mun’ kard niklne par apke samne svayan hi aisi paristhitiyan ayengi ki sara sach samne a jayega aur ap age dhokha khane se bach jayenge. ab man lijie kisi mahila ke apne pati se sanbandh achche nahin hain. vah bharasak prayatn karti hai
ki vah apne pati ke pasand ke anusar karya kare jisse sanbandh kharab n ho fir bhi unmen manmutav rahta hai, har choti si bat ko lekar jhagra hota rahta hai, usko samajh men nahin ata ki vah apne danpatya jivan ko kaise sukhi v khushnuma banaye. aisi sthiti men vah khud ko bahut ashay samjhti hai. is paristhiti men agar vah tairo ridar ke pas jakar tairo riding karvati hai aur riding ke dauran ukt kard ‘‘di mun’’ prakat hai to uske liye shubh hoga kyonki yah kard ingit karta hai ki ab aisi paristhitiyan ayengi ki sare rahasya se parda uth jayega aur sara sach samne a jayega, unke bich man mutav ka karan bhi saf najar a jayega. jaise agar iske pati ke kisi aur mahila se najayaj sanbandh hain
aur is karan vah apni patni ko mahatva nahin deta, karan samajh men ane ke bad vah mahila apne age ke jivan ke liye yathochit kadam utha sakti hai aur apna jivan sudhar sakti hai. iske liye vah apne mata-pita, sage sanbandhiyon se bhi madad le sakti hai. kanun ka bhi sahara le sakti hai. isi prakar koi vidyarthi hai aur uske mata-pita pareshan hain
ki uske pariksha parinam achche nahin ate, ve bharasak prayatn karte hain, uska praivet tyushan bhi lagva rakha hai, aisi paristhiti men agar vah tairo ridar ke pas jakar riding karvate hain aur riding ke dauran ukt kard niklta hai to yah ingit karta hai ki jaldi hi aisi paristhitiyan ayanegi jismen uski asflta ka sach samne a jayega jaise ki uski sangat achchi nahin hai, uska parhai men man nahin lagta hai use vishay pasand nahin hai jaise vah sains nahin kaemars ya art vishay parhna chahta hai adi.