isi mahine bachchon ki pariksha ka samay a gaya hai. ham apni jindgi men ajakal itna vyast ho chuke hain ki hamen apne bhavishya ko banane ke alava aur kisi bat ki chinta hi nahin hoti, jiske karan parivarik jivan andar hi andar kharab hota rahta hai. pati-patni men bhi ae-din klesh hote rahte hain, kai bar to bachchon ki parhai ki vajah se ghar men klesh bara rup le leta hai jiske karan pati-patni men bhi tanav ban jata hai.
bachchon ki pitai karna bhi achcha nahin lagta, kyonki jise itna pyar karte hain, usi aulad par kaise hath utha den. samasya ka ye koi hal bhi nahin hai, aisa bilkul n karen. bachchane men barhti umra ke sath jiddipan, gussa, choti-choti baton ko lekar ghar men tor for karne ki adat n jane kahan se a jati hai, fir yahi sochne par majbur ho jate hain ki ham to aise nahin the fir hamare bachche aise kaise ho gae. aiye aj ham aisi hi bahut si pareshaniyon ke hal nikalen....
man ka n lagna ya fir yad karke bhul jana
- jo bachche parhne likhne men dhyan
nahin dete hain, unko sabse pahle to
gahre nile aur kale rang se parhej
karvaen, unke kamre men bhi in rangon
ko n karvaen.
- suryast ke bad bachchon ko dudh na
pilaen agar pina hi ho to rang
badalakar pine den.
- bachchon ko hamesha uttar disha ki
taraf munh karke parhne ke lie kahen,
bachchon ki stadi tebal par safed ya
lal rang ka prayog karen.
- ghar se sabhi tarah ke nae-purane
bijli ke kharab saman, band
ghariyan, khote sikke, jang laga hua
loha adi bahar nikalen, kyonki
inki durgandh sans ke dvara jab andr
jati hai to dimag men sahan shakti
kam hone lagti hai aur yaddashta
kamjor hoti hai sath hi yahi ghar men
bimari bhi kabhi khatm nahin hone dete.
- chandi ke bartan men gangajal bharkr
chandi ka ek chaikor tukra dalkr
bachchon ke parhne vale kamre men rakhen.
- bachche ke kamre men brihaspati ki
potli kil par latka den.
- bachchon ke kamre men man sarasvati
ji ki foto uttar disha ki tarf
jarur lagaen.
pariksha ke dauran kya karen aur kya nahin karen
- jab bhi bachcha pariksha dene jaye to
usse pahle 6 din lagatar 600
gram dudh mandir men rakhen.
- kale, nile rang ke kavar vale pen
n le jaen, aur pen ka dhakkana
agar sunhra ho to bahut hi achcha
hoga.
- bachchon ko 6 se 7 ghante ki nind
jarur lene den, n hi isse jyada
nind lene den aur na hi isse kam
nind lene den.
- nile, kale rang ke kapre pahnkr
ekjam dene na jaen, agar bhul
jane ki adat ho to hare rang se
parhej rakhen.
- jo bachche apni parhai tikkr
nahin karte arthat dhairya se nahin parhte
unko sava 5 ratti lal munga
(bangali munga ati uttam hota hai)
chandi men lagvakar shukla paksh men
manglvar ke din sidhe hath ki
anamika anguli men pahna den. ratna
ke lie sahi tarah se janmakundli
ka dekhna jaruri hoga.
bachche men barhte gusse aur jiddipn
- bachchon men barhte gusse aur jiddipn
ko rokne ke lie har manglvar 8
gur ki rotiyan tandur men lagvakr
4 kutton ko dalen aur 4 kauvon ko
dalen, rotiyon men lohe ki char na
lag paye.
- bachchon ko achche aur sahnshil
doston ka chayan karna sikhaen.
- bachchon ki pitai na karen, isse
unke andar ka dar ek din khatma
ho jaega, bahut jyada hone par hi
aisa kadam soch samajhakar uthaen.
- ghar ki chat par kisi bhi prakar
ka kabar, loha, lakri adi na
rakhen.
- unke kamre ki aur kapron ki
saf-safai ka vishesh dhyan rakhen.
- chandi ke bartan men gangajal bharkr
chandi ka ek chaikor tukra dalkr
bachchon ke parhne vale kamre men rakhen.
- bachche ke kamre men brihaspati ki
potli kil par latka den.
- khelne ka kam se kam ek se derh
ghante mauka apne bachchon ko jarur den
jisse ki unhen pasina jarur aye
aur shvans prakriya ke dvara dimag
men, aeksijan pahunch sake, munh se
sans n lene ki adat dale, isse
bachche ki yaddasht barhegi.
- bachchon ko der rat tak n jagne
den aur subah der tak na sone den.
subah jaldi jagakar unke kamre men
achchi halki khushbu ki agarabatti
ya parafyum laga den jisse ki jab
ve jagen to ek sakaratmak soch ke
sath din ki shuruat ho.