dampatya sukh ke upay  

dampatya sukh ke upay nur chaidhri kai bar pati-patni ke bich kisi bhi bat ko lekar vivad utpann ho jata hai. jo kabhi bhi kalah ka rup le leta hai aur parivar men ashanti ka karan banne lagta hai, aise pati-patni ke bich madhur evan perempurn sanbandhon ke lie yahan par kuch upayon ki charcha ki ja rahi hai jinke madhyam se pati-patni ke madhya katuta kam hokar prem ka sanchar ho sake. yadi pati apni patni ko adhik samay nahin de pata hai athva koi anya karan ho jisse vah apni patni se kam prem karta ho, to uske lie us mahila ko chahie ki pahle kele ka pujan aur dev guru brihaspati ki seva aradhna kare. upay ap shuklapaksh ke pratham guruvar se aranbh karen. guruvar ko pratah snan kar pile vastra dharan karen. ek tanbe ke patra men jal men gur v pisi haldi mila len. ek nariyal, do ate ke pere, gili chane ki dal v gur len. ab ap is kele ke vriksh ke pas jakar vriksh par haldi se tilak karen aur shuddh ghi ka dipak tatha agrbÿai arpit karen aur dev guru se apni samasya ke nivaran ki prarthana karen. yathasanbhav guru ki katha, 108 nam athva stotra adi ka path karen aur jal arpit kar vapas a jaen. ate ke pere v anya samagri gay ko khila den aur nariyal ko shuddh sthan par rakh den. ane vale budhvar ko kisi shakti mandir men nariyal ke sath thora-sa sindur v anya puja samagri lekar jaen. man ko dipak, dhup arpit karne ke bad nariyal v sindur man ke charnon men arpit kar den. apni samasya ka nivedan kar man ka kavach, chalisa, 108 athva 32 nam ki mala ka path karen. path ke bad nariyal kisi bachche se furva den v sindur lekar ghar a jayen. agle guruvar ko punah yahi kriya karen. budhvar ko bhi yahi kriya karni hai. is prakar apko tin guruvar v tin budhvar yah karna hai. ab apne jo sindur ekatrit kiya hai use bhog bharne men prayog karen. kuch hi samay men apko chamatkarik fal mahsus honge. upay jitne vishvas se karenge, utni hi jaldi apko fal milega. kisi bhi krishnapaksh ki ashtami athva chaturdashi ko ap ghar ke puja sthal men man durga ko dhup, dip arpit kar thora-sa sindur, 12 lal churiyan aur mangal sutra ke rup men dhaga arpit karen, ab man se sirf itni prarthana karen ki man, main teri putri hun aur yah samagri main tere uphar svarup svikar kar rahi hun jisse teri kripa aur ashirvad se mera dampatya jivan sahi salamat rahe. itna karne ke pashchat pranam kar mandir men thore se sindur se mang bharen tatha mangal sutra ka dhaga aaur churi dharan kar len. punah pranam kar mandir se bahar a jayen. bache sindur ko ap apne prayog karne vale sindur men mila len. dampatya jivan ki kisi bhi samasya ke lie yah upay labhkari rahega. pahle guruvar ko ap kisi chairahe ke pipal par jaye. shuddh ghi ka dipak v chandan ki agrbÿai arpit kar ek patra men ya done men tin tarah ki mithai arpit karen aur prarthana karane ki mere dampatya jivan men amuk samasya a rahi hai. devguru brihaspati aur apke ashirvad se is samasya ka nivaran hoga. islie apse nivedan hai ki meri samasya ka nivaran karen. iske lie main sakshya rup se yah kil apke samaksh mitti men daba rahi hun. jab apki kripa se meri samasya ka samadhan ho jayega, tab main yah kil nikalakar le jaungi. itna kahakar ek bari kil lekar usmen lal dhaga bandh den aur pipal ke samaksh mitti se daba den. jab apki samasya ka samadhan ho jay to kil nikalakar ek jata nariyal ke sath jal men pravahit kar den. dampatya ki sabhi samasyaon ke nivaran ke lie ap niyamit rup se kele aur pipal ke vriksh ki seva karen. guruvar ko kele aur pipal men samanya jal aur shuddh ghi ka dipak aur shanivar ko pipal men sarson ke tel ka dipak v mitha jal arpit karen. aisa karne se kabhi bhi kisi bhi prakar ki samasya apke dampatya jivan men nahin ayegi.