prachin men bahuvivah ko adhik manyata thi. is samay anek raja-maharajaon ne anekon patniyan, dasiyan rakhte the. jahan tak devta bhi anek patniyan v patraniyan rakhte the. svayan bhagvan ram ke pita janak ke tin raniyan thi. krishn ne kai raniyan v saikron patraniyan thi. magar is yug men (adhunik) bahuvivah prachalan par rok laga di gai. aur sarkar dvara ek patni hi rakhne ka vichar pas kiya gaya.
karan jo bhi raha ho magar multah karan jansankhya vriddhi hi tha. ao janen jyotish drishti men kya hai bahu vivah ya bahu sanbandh: sarva pratham ye jane ki bahu vivah kin karnon ke karan hota hai. jaise- santan ka n hona, adhik kamukta, patni manpsand n hona adi karan bahuvivah ko parhate hain. isi prakar bahu sanbandh bhi nimn karan se hote hain. jaise adhik kamukta patni se mankhinn rahne ke karan, grrihaklesh ke karan vyakti anek striyon se sanbandh bana lete hain. jyotish drishti men jane kin grih yogon ke karan hote hain vivah adhik. saptam bhav vivah (patni-pati) ka bhav mana gaya hai. saptamesh jo vivah grih ka svami hai
yadi pap grahon se drisht ya pap grahon ke madhya ho, to dampatya jivan ko kamjor karta hai yadi saptamesh pap grahon se drisht v dvisvabhav rashi men vidyaman ho, to vyakti do ya do se adhik vivah karta hai. yadi saptam men rahu, shani, mangal, surya prathak karak grih ho, to ye grih pati-patni algav karate hain. jiske karan bhi vyakti punah vivah kar leta hai. managlik dosh (mangli) bhi dampatya jivan men nimnata lata hai ye dosh lagn dvitiya, chaturth, saptam, ashtam aur dvadash men hone par yadi saptam bhav ke donon or shashtam ya ashtam men pap grah ho, to dampatya jivan ko kamjor banate hain. jiske karan patni men manmutav, grih kalah rahti hai.
jiske chalte punah vivah ki sanbhavna adhik barh jati hai. santan ke abhav ke karn: pancham bhav ya panchmesh ka pirit hona ya pancham bhav par pap grihon ki drishti bhi santan paksh ko kamjor karti hai. jisse bhi vyakti punarvivah ki sochta hai. kuch santan pratibadhak yog -
û chandra aur tritiyesh mesh, kark, tula, dhanu, makar aur sinh rashi men hone par santan sukh ki prapti nahin hoti hai.
û panchmesh shashtam, ashtam aur dvadash bhav men guru se adrisht hon to bhi santan sukh men badha pahunchate hain.
û pancham bhav men sinh rashi aur vahan shani mangal sthi ho. pancham, shashtagat ho santan badhak yog hota hai. uprokt karan bhi bahu vivah ko majbuti dete hain. dampatya jivan kalah ke karn:
û saptamesh jivan sathi ka pratinidhitva karta hai. yadi yah dushit ho, to dampatya jivan kalah purn bana deta hai.
û saptamesh dvadash, shashtam, ashtam, dvitiya (ashtam se ashtama) men hai karan dampatya jivan niras banate hain.
û saptamesh nich ya shatru rashi men ya navansh men ho.
û shukra dampatya jivan tatha seks ka karan matra hai.
û karak tatva guru (stri) shukra (purush) ka dushit hona bhi dampatya jivan ko kamjor banata hai. uprokt karan vivah bhi bahu vivah hai. ati kamukta ke karn: ise janne ke lie nimn kundli aur bhav par tippani karen. nimn kundli mangl-shani ki sanyukti chaturth bhav men chandra bhavesh ke sath hai. shani vakri tatha vagoÿamansh men hai. mangal bhi nich ang hone ke karan bali hai. saptamasth shukra par mangal rahu ki drishti ke karan ati kamuk bana diya. lagn, lagnesh chaturth bhav v chatu pap grih se pirit hai.
kishoravastha men shukra ki maha dasha ne adhik kamuk bana diya. saptam bhav rahu se pirit itar sanbandh banvata hai. chaturth bhav v chaturthesh aur saptam bhav pirit ho aur shukra bhav pap prabhav men ho to jatak ko ati kamuk bana deta hai. ye yog aise hain bahu vivah ya bahu sanbandh banava dete hain. pati-patni ka manpsand na hona: yadi saptamesh surya shani grih ho, to pati umra men bara hota hai. saptam bhavesh ya bhav rahu, surya se drisht ya yen grih saptam men ho, to pati ka adhik umra vala ishryalu hai.
ismen pancham bhav ka bhi shubh ho mukhya sthan rakhta hai kyonki ye sthan shiksha ke sath-sath prem ka bhi hai. atah iska pirit hona bhi dampatya jivan men dararen dal deta hai. ye karan bhi vivah sanbandh ko nimn janm kundli bhi dampatya sukh men nirasta ka abhav ko darshati hai. vrishchik lagn ki janm kanudli men lagn men mangal saptamamasth shani drisht hona pati ki ayu adhik hona. shani se drisht hone ke karan purn mangli banata hai. ek santan hone ke karan bhi dampatya jivan narak sa ban gaya. talak tak ki nauhavat a pahunchi. aj bahu vivah ko ek tatva ‘dahej pratha’ ne aur bal diya.
aj vyakti dhan ki lalsa men ek patni se kisi bhi karan ke marta hai, anek prakar se yatnaen deta hai. yahan tak ki usi lila ko samapt kar deta hai. jisse vah anya vivah kar sake. dahej ke lalach se vyakti anek vivah kar leta hai. bahu vivah se hone vale sankton men sabse bhishan samasya hai. jansankhya vriddhi. isi ke karan berojgari, ann avas ki kami, pichrapan, arthik pareshaniya adi karan hote hain.u