mangli larki ke vivah men archnon ko mitane ka upay
kaha jata hai kashi men bhagvan shiv ji ne manas ki chaipaiyon ko mantra shakti pradan ki hai. atah islie kashi ki or munh karke unko sakshi banakar shraddhapurvak jap karna chahie. is kriya se jo bhi manokamna hai vah avashya puri hoti hai. nimnalikhit samagri ko ekatrit karen.
chandan burada, til, shuddh deshi ghi, shuddh shakkar, shahad, tagar, kapur, shuddh kesar, nagar mautha, panchmeva, chaval, jau, yah havan keval ek hi din karna hai.
jis uddeshya ki purti ke lie chaipai dohe, sortha ka jap karna hai uski siddhi ke lie ek din havan samagri se us chaipai ka athva dohe ka evan sortha ke dvara 108 bar havan karna hai. iske lie koi alag kund banane ki avashyakta nahin hai. pratyek ahuti men chaipai ke ant men svaha avashya kahna hai. yah ratri men 10 baje karna chahie. pratyek ahuti lagabhag 10 gram sab chijen milakar karni hongi. is tarah 108 ahuti ke lie ek kilo samagri jismen sab chijen mila kar bana leni chahie.
panchmeva pista, badam, kishmish, akhrot, kaju le sakte hain. kesar shuddh char ane bhar hi dalni chahie. asan man ka hona chahie. - yadi koi avivahit larka jo shadi se vanchit ho raha hai, vah shukla paksh ke guruvar ko jal men snan karte samay ek chutki pisi hui haldi ko dalakar snan kare to vivah ka yog shighra ban jata hai. ek mahina isi prakar snan karta rahe to avashya shadi pakki ho jayegi.