gharelu totke dae. urvashi bandhu yadi mangal thik n ho jinka mangal ka din bhi thik nahin rahta, aksar nakaratmak vichar ate rahte hon, man dukhi rahta ho, brihaspativar ko bhi kisi se nonk jhonk hoti rahti ho, jhagre hote rahte hon, ve janmapatri ke anusar upay karen.
makan kiraye par dena ho makan kiraye par lagana ho, to uska graund flor hi kiraye par lagaen, svayan pratham tal par rahen. apko kirayedar se kabhi koi taklif nahin milegi. sanbandh bhi sau¬hardapurn rahenge v jarurat parne par vah aram se makan khali kar dega. dip se n jalaen dhup dipak jalakar usi se dhup ya agarabatti kabhi bhi nahin jalani chahie. isse ghar men daridrata pravesh karti hai.
aisa karne se paison men barakat nahin hoti, kharch amdni se jyada hota hai, karj barhta jata hai. sas-bahu men anaban sas v bahu men apsi sanbandh katu hone par chandi ka chaikor tukra sadaiv apne pas rakhen. haldi ya kesar ki bindi mathe par lagaen. shukla paksh ke pratham brihaspativar se bindi lagana shuru karen. gale men chandi ki chen dharan karen. kisi se bhi koi vastu muft n len.
manglvar ko mandir ke bahar baithe garibon ko suji ka halva svayan banten. ap dekhenge ki sthitiyan kis prakar anukul hone lagti hain. sanpatti prapti hetu sanpatti prapt karne ke lie dayin kalai par pandit ji se lal mauli bandhva len. chandi ki chen gale men pahnen. subah jab uthen, sabse pahle jara sa shahad khaen. bhagvan hanumanji ka pujan karen, manglvar ko unka vrat rakhen. suryast ke bad mitha prasad adi banten. ath kilo sabut urad keval ek bar kisi bahte pani men baha den aur shraddhapurvak sanpatti prapti ki kamna se prarthana karen.
grih shanti hetu ghar men vatavaran ko shantimay banane ke lie ek kap dudh men mitha mila kar vat vriksh ki jar men prati¬din arpit karen aur us sthan ki jara si gili mitti lekar mathe par ya nabhi par laga len. yah kriya somvar se shuru karen aur 43 din tak pratidin karte rahen, labh hoga. suryast ke pashchat manglvar ko garibon ko suji ka halva khane ko den. shubh muhurt men chandi ki anguthi men shriyantra dharan karen- purush dayen hath ki tarjani men aur striyan bayen hath ki tarjani men.
pratidin pratah uske darshan karen, labhanvit honge. tanav dur karne ke lie vaivahik jivan men tanav dur karne ke lie apne shayanakaksh men mor pankh rakhen. rasoi men dudh ubalte vakt yah dhyan rahe ki vah ubal kar agni men n gire. striyan chandi ki noj ring pahnen, tanav dhire-dhire dur hone lagega. karj se mukti ke lie yah prayog shukla paksh ki pra¬tipda se shuru karna chahie. ek ‘hatthajori’ len. us par nile rang ka dhaga 100 bar lapeten. dhaga dinta aur rin se mukti ki prarthana karte hue lapeten. iske pashchat dhup, dip jala len.
dip sabut chaval ki dheri par rakh kar jalaen. ab ¬ gan rinahartayai namah mantra ka shuddhata se 28 bar jap karen. pile rang ke thore se chaval len aur ‘hatthajori’ par thora-thora charhate hue upar likhe mantra ka 35 bar jap karen. is pra¬kar 9 din tak pratidin yah puja karen.
navmi ki rat ko jamin men ‘hatthajori’ ko thora gahre tak daba den. aur upar se ek bhari patthar rakh den. yadi aisa karne men koi pareshani ho, to kisi pavitra sthan ki chat par fenk den. prakriya gupt rakhen. chupchap ghar a jaen. palat kar n dekhen. rog dur karne ke lie kai bar bahut upchar karne par bhi rog dur nahin hote. koi n koi rog bana hi rahta hai.
janm kundli ke vishleshan ke lie bat karen desh ke prasiddh jyotishiyon se keval fyuchar point par