bedrum ghar ka vah mahatvapurn sthan hota hai jahan ap apna sabse jyada samay bitate hain. pure din kam karne ke uprant yah sthan apke sharir aur dimag ko aram aur shanti pradan karta hai. achchi nind ke lie anukul vatavaran avashyak hai. sharirik, mansik urja ki prapti tatha shithilta samapt karne ke lie achchi nind avashyak hai. pati-patni ke rishton par bhi bedrum ka kafi prabhav hota hai.
vastu- fengshui ke siddhanton ke anurup bedrum ki vyavastha tatha saj-sajja hi pati-patni ke bich rishton ki madhurta tay karti hai. bedrum ke lie upyukt dishaen mastar bedrum ghar ke mukhiya ka shayan kaksh jise mastar bedrum bhi kaha jata hai, ghar ke dakshin-pashchim (nairritya) men hona sarvashreshth hai.
vikalp ke rup men uttara-pashchim (vayavya) men bhi shayan kaksh uttam hai. yadi ghar do manjila hai to mastar bedrum dusri manjil par dakshin-pashchim men hona chahie. dakshin-pashchim ka bedrum sthirta aur mahatvapurn muddon ko himmat se hal karne men sahayta pradan karta hai. bachchon ka bedrum bachchon ka bedrum uttara-pashchim ya pashchim men hona chahie. avivahit bachchon ka bedrum avivahit larke ka bedrum purva ya uttara-purva disha men hona thik hai.
vivah yogya kanya ka bedrum uttara-pashchim men rakhna avashyak hai. uttara-pashchim men kanya ka bedrum hone se vivah uchit samay par evan shighra hote hain. gest rum mehmanon ke lie gest rum uttara-pashchim, purva athva uttara-purva men banaya ja sakta hai. uttara-pashchim men gest rum hone se unke shighra jane ki sanbhavna hoti hai.
dakshin-pashchim ka bedrum to mehmanon ko kabhi nahin dena chahie anyatha ve lanbe samay ke lie ghar men tik jaenge jo ghar ke logon ke lie asuvidhajanak hoga. atah aisi paristhiti paida n hone den ki kahna pare ki ‘atithi tum kab jaoge?’ ’uttara-purva men bedrum jahan tak sanbhav ho sake uttara-purva men koi bedrum n banayen. uttara-purva disha men devi-devtaon ka sthan hai islie is disha men koi bedrum nahin hona chahie.
uttara-purva men bedrum hone se dhan ki hani, kam men rukavat aur bachchon ki shadi men deri ho sakti hai. is disha men puja ghar hi upyukt hai. ’dakshin-purva men bedrum dakshin-purva men bedrum anidra, chinta aur vaivahik samasyaon ko janm deta hai. dakshin-purva disha agney kon hai jo akramkta, gussa evan anchahe vad-vivad ka parichayak hai.
atah akramak aur krodhi svabhav ke log is kamre men n rahen. sharmile aur darpok bachche is kamre ka upyog kar sakte hain, unmen sahas aur drirhta ka vikas hoga. ’ghar ke madhya-bhag men bedrum bedrum ghar ke madhya bhag men nahin hona chahie, yah kshetra brahm sthan hai. yah sthan bahut sari urja ko akarshit karta hai jo ki aram aur nind ke lie upuyakt nahin hai.
bedrum men saman ke lie upyukt sthan bed/plang bedrum men palang/bed dakshin-pashchim disha ki or is prakar samanjit karen ki sone vale ka sir sadaiv dakshin tatha pair uttar disha men rahe. yah chanubkiya dhruv ki disha hone ke karan aramdeh evan svasthyaprad hota hai. yadi sir dakshin ki taraf karna sanbhav n ho to vikalp ke taur par purva ki or karne ki bhi vyavastha kar sakte hain.
dakshin aur purva ko chorakar kisi anya disha men sir karke sone se anidra, chirchirapan, sharir men dard tatha age chalakar svasthya se sanbandhit anek pareshaniyan ho sakti hain. palang/bed niyamit akar ka yani aytakar athva vargakar hona chahie. palang/bed lakri ka hona chahie. dhatu ka palang/bed sharir se sakaratmak urja ka shoshan kar leti hai.
palang/ bed ko bedrum ke darvaje ke thik samne n lagayen. bedrum ke darvaje lagane kholne par karkrahat ki avaj nahin ani chahie. palang/ bed ke upar maiteªs singal hona chahie. dabal maitres vibhajan ka pratik hai, yah pati-patni ke bich algav paida kar sakta hai.
stadi tebal stadi tebal bedrum men purva athva pashchim disha men is prakar rakhen ki parhai karte samay munh hamesha purva disha ki or rahe. dresing tebal yadi bedrum men dresing tebal rakhna avashyak ho to ise purva ya uttar ki or vyavasthit karen. dresing tebal ke sath darpan purva ya uttar ki divaron par lagayi jani chahie. is bat ka dhyan rakhen ki darpan par pratibinb n bane. bedrum men dresing tebal khirki ke samne nahin rakhen. bedrum ke andar ya bahar ban athva arddh chandrakar farnichar nahin lagvaen. isse ghar ke sadasyon ke svasthya kharab almari/sef almari /sef dakshin-pashchim kone men vyavasthit kiya jana chahie.
khulte samay hamesha uska munh uttar ki taraf khulna chahie. ti. vi., hitar aur eyar kandishanar ti. vi., hitar aur eyar kandishanar ko agney kon yani dakshin-purva men sthit hona chahie. bedrum ke sath ataichd bathrum uttara-pashchim athva pashchim disha men hona chahie. darvaje evan khirkiyan chahie. khulte samay hamesha uska munh uttar ki taraf khulna chahie. ti. vi., hitar aur eyar kandishanar bedrum ke darvaje evan khirkiyan purva athva uttar disha men honi chahie. tasviren bedrum men yuddh, krurta, hinsa, nirasha darshane vali tatha devtaon ki tasviren, singal bard, pashu tatha hinsak janvron ki tasviren nahin lagani chahie.
agar lagani hi ho to bal rup men kanhaiya ki tasvir, apne bachchon, pati-patni athva ghar ke kisi ayojan ke sukhad palon ki tasvir laga sakte hain. buk shelf yadi ap bedrum men bukshelf rakhne ke ichchuk hain to buk shelf pashchim athva dakshin-pashchim kone men rakhen. kalr/pent bedrum ka kalar halka gulabi, pila ya parpal rakhen athva grih svami ke kua nanbar ke adhar par rang ka chayan karen.
bedrum ke lie avashyak tips :
- bedrum ki chat dhaldar nahin honi chahie. yadi chat dhaldar ho to kam unchai vale bhag men bed dalna chahie. dhyan rakhen ki bim ya kariyon ke niche apka bed n rahe.
- bedrum men kisi bhi prakar ke ilektraenik upakaran rakhne se bachen.
- shayan kaksh men darpan n lagayen. yah apsi sanbandhon men darar paida karta hai. yadi jagah ki kami ke karan darpan rakhna bhi pare to use dhankakar rakhen aur prayog ke samay hi use kholen. darpan yadi kisi almari ke andar rakha jay to uttam rahega.
- ghar men sidha pravesh bedrum ke mukhya dvar se nahin hona chahie. bich men partishan ya koi jali avashya honi chahie. mukhyadvar se sidha bedrum men pravesh hone se grihasvami ko adalat ke chakkar katne par sakte hain.
- bedrum men dresing tebal ya bara darpan sir ke samne nahin hona chahie. aisa hone se vyakti akaran anek prakar ke sankton se ghira rahta hai.
- bedrum men fish baul athva ekveriyam rakhna hitakar nahin hota hai. bedrum ke darvaje ke samne pair karke sona ashubh hota hai.
- bedrum men mandir v purvajon ki tasviren n rakhen.
- ghari ko kabhi bhi sir ke niche ya bed ke piche rakhakar nahin sona chahie. ghari ko bed ke samne bhi nahin lagana chahie anyatha bed par sone vala vyakti hamesha chintagrast ya tanav men rahta hai. ghari ko hamesha bed ke bayin ya dayin or hi lagana hitakar rahta hai.
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