yadi marn-vela ka pahle abhas ho jae to- asannamrityu vyakti ko chahie ki vah samast bahya padarthon aur kutunb mitradikon se chitt hatakar parabrahm ka dhyan kare. gita men kaha hai- omityekaksharan brahm vyaharan mamnusmaran. yah prayati tyajan dehan s yati parman gatim.. arthat yadi vyakti maran samay bhi bhagvan ke dhyan men lin ho sake to bhi vah shreshth gati ko prapt karta hai. kutambijn-katrtavya: is samay kutumbiyon aur sathiyon ka katrtavya hai ki ve asanna-mrityu ke charon or adhyatmik vatavaran banaven.
jo dan karna chahen- annadan, dravyadan, godan, gayatri japadi yathashakti yathavidhi us vyakti ke hath se karaven athva uski or se svayan karen. garbhadhanadi sanskaron ki vidhi-kartrik hone par bhi sanskar putra ka hi hota hai. isi prakar dah-sanskar ki kriya putra-kartrik hone par bhi sanskar mritak ka hi hoga. pinddan adi shraddhakriya mritak ko parlok men shubhfl-datri hai. antyeshti sanskar anya sanskaron ki bhanti mritak ke atma ko shuddh karne vala hai.
asanna-mrityu vyakti ko yathasanbhav achmn-marjan adi kara sankalp karake ‘un tatsad brahmarpanamastu’ uchcharan kara, dan karana chahiye. marn-samay ka kritya: marnbela men asanna-mrityu purush ko prithvi ko gobar se lip kushaen bicha, un adi ka vastra bichakar dakshin men sir kar lita dena chahie. us samay bhi vah, yadi kar sake to ishavasya purush-sukt athva gitasahastranam adi stotra ka path karen athva sune. pran chorte samy: putradi uttaradhikari purush gangodak chirkane.
pran nikal jane par vah apni god men mritak ko sir rakh uske mukh, nathune, donon ankhon aur kanon men ghi buden dal, vastra men dhank, kushaon vali bhumi par tilon ko bikher kar uttar ki or sir karke lita den. shav-snan: dah-karm ka adhikari putra adi darhi-munch sahit sir ka mundan karakar snan kare aur shuddh vastra (dhoti-angocha adi) dharan kar mritak ke samip jaye. is samay vah sab tirthon ka dhyan karta hua, mritak ko shuddh jal se snan karave.
fir us par chandn-gandh adi ka lepan kar mukh men snan karave. fir us par chandn-gandh adi ka lepan kar mukh men pancharatn, gangajal, aur tulsi dhare tatha shuddh vastra (kafn) men lapet kar arthi par rakh bhali bhanti bandh de. pind dan: iske pashchat shav ke dakshin or baith apasavya hokar pind dan karen. ye chah hain, pratyek men sankalp parhakar jamin par asn-dan, fir sankalp parhakar pind par avnejan dal den aur fir sankalp parhakar usko shav ki chati par rakh den. isi prakar 5 pind den. til-sahit ghi-shakkar milakar jau ke ate ka pind banaya jata hai.
pinddan ka samanya sankalp ah sankalpa- adya .......gotrasya .........pretasya prettanivrityarth uktamalok praptyarthanmaudhrvadaihikan karm karishye. prathmshv-pind-sankalpa: adya-gotra-pret pindasthane'travnenittva te maya diyate tavoptishthatam. adya-gotra-pret mrityusthane shavo namak esh pindaste maya diyate tavoptishthatam. adya..... gotra pitar..........pret pindopri pratyavnejnjlan te maya diyate tavoptishthatam.
is prakar tin sankalp parh pind ko pret ke vastra men chati par bandh den aur shav ko ghar ke dvar tak le ayane. dvar par dusra panth pind arthi le jana chairahe par tisra pind vishram sthan par chaitha pind chitachayan. hom-vidhan adi kriyaen karni chahie.